Hi and thank you for finding this blog. I am 67 years old and a widow, living in Northern NJ. I spent 20 years living in California and 15 years before that in Ohio and Kentucky. I grew up in the Adirondacks. I moved to NJ to be closer to my first grandchild and here is where my husband passed away after battling cancer for a decade. I have worked on myself for many years, inside and out, and I think the daily effort is what life is about but there is also so much to share with others and learn how you are navigating this life.